Author: Crystal Arber

Needs Rants from the adaptive child… What are needs? Do you mean meet other peoples needs? My kids? My partner? My dysfunctional parents?  I remember taking care of my parents … Continue reading rants from the adaptive child…needs

  Interesting how so many dating advice sites and popular dating books  ask that women stop being needy, or never act needy, or remain aloof,  but what a lot of these … Continue reading Relationships and Regulation

There is hope for those who have experienced multiple operational stress injuries. The hope is intensive EMDR treatment which gives each operational stress injury the attention the injury needs through … Continue reading Intensive EMDR heals Operational Stress – Combat Trauma.

When it comes to trauma, grief and loss isn’t talked about enough. In fact some psychologists believe that grief is a more important factor in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. After … Continue reading Trauma – grief and loss

  What are parts of self? Do I have parts? Does everyone have parts? We all have different parts of ourselves. You likely have a part when you talk to … Continue reading Parts of self trapped in trauma time