We are embedded in a critical age of what I am going to call digital attachment trauma. It is with much sadness I witness parents on their digital gadgets while … Continue reading Digital Attachment Trauma
are you an adaptive child? I am the child who had to adapt to the crazy dysfunctional family I grew up in. I did a great job of negotiating the … Continue reading are you a functional adult or an adaptive child?
The adaptive child is the child stuck in the adults body that never got to grow up because they were too busy trying to survive a chaotic family.
rants from the adaptive child… Boundaries What are you talking about.. boundaries? What the heck is a boundary? What do you mean? Where you begin and I end? I … Continue reading rants from the adaptive child… boundaries
Needs Rants from the adaptive child… What are needs? Do you mean meet other peoples needs? My kids? My partner? My dysfunctional parents? I remember taking care of my parents … Continue reading rants from the adaptive child…needs